Hello,
I am originally from Wales.
I moved here with my late husband when he retired from work.
We chose to live inland and in a village.
We looked for somewhere with shops and good facilities. Doctor, Bar,hairdressers,bank,etc. All the things we thought we would need without having to travel by car for basic things.
I had no spanish my husband could speak quite well. By using the local shops I quickly learnt the language. I found the people very helpful, warm and friendly, there patience in helping me learn the language and generoucity with their local produce during harvest.
This is my experience and is exactly what we were looking for. I have found in the Eleven years of living here, most new comers I meet, come with dreams, they have not worked out what it is they are realy looking for. You need to think long and hard about what you want , really want and how you wish to live. I think you will find it somewhere in Spain as it is such a diverse Country.