Hi Polly,
My husband and I and our two daughters aged 6 and 2 are hoping to move to Spain within the next 12-18 months. We would be looking at Estepona area as my husband would hopefully be gaining employment in Gibralter.
I am very keen on the idea but my husband is just concerned about jobs. Like your husband he has a very good job here - he works in IT as a Project Manager. There seems to be jobs available in Gib so we are going out again for a week in October so he can have a chat to the agencies out there and we can have a look at the schooling situation.
I understand you go to the Town Hall in the area you wish to live in to find out about the school.
We would be sending our girls to a local Spanish school as we would want them to mingle and become as Spanish as possible and at their ages they should pick it up within a year hopefully.
Let me know how you get on and good look with your re-search.
Sarah