Hi Westwood,
What a terrible situation! We try to do the right thing then find ourselves at a loss!
I don’t think it would do any harm to try another abogado or two… write to the British Consulate in Malaga (if this is your province) and they will provide you with a list. (I just did this and am very satisfied with the one I picked)..
Even if this is not a civil or criminal case, they should be able to advise you correctly,
I have a legal ‘laboral’ lawyer in Marbella.. but I think she mainly does employment law rather than businesses.
I think the solution is always to keep searching for the definitive answer - and hopefully our questions are answered and we can get on and enjoy our life here and feel Ok that we are ‘legal’/clean and green!
Good luck! sj
PS - have you notified Social Security that you are no longer running a business/self employed? DE-REGISTER ASAP if not already done so! (A good accountant can do this for you).